There is one thing so bad in my life , I cannot forgive this person , she tried to torture my nephew when he was 2 by scholding water and cigerate burns over 50 of them I'm not that spirtitual yet.
But what I have done is come to terms with it with the help of the steps, amd AA meetings . It don't consume my thoughts or fill me with hate , it takes time and with the help of AA you to can work out the things you thought you never could.